Love, in Real Life · 8-week group starts 28 October · Once a year
Tehilla Luttig

Tehilla · ti-hee-la

Love is our natural state. Everything else is a coping strategy or a believed lie.

The tools I teach every private client, in your own time.

The Ultimate Relationship Realignment Toolbox. 8 modules, 45+ short video lessons, a workbook and bonuses. $147, for one person or a couple.

$147 · for one person or a couple

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So many people start out with deep, exciting love, feeling invincible. But over time, and often with children, a distance creeps in, and connection gets replaced with protection. You still love each other, but it feels like you speak different languages. Maybe, you hope, if you could just learn to say things better, you'd finally get through to each other. But it's rarely that simple, or the books would have worked. We all see the world through our own filters, and we all carry old injuries that affect how safe we feel with love. That's why this course goes beyond communication tools.

Did you know?

Our arguments are rarely about the situation in front of us. They're usually a re-awakening of old pain from unmet needs. Even the dishes can be about feeling unappreciated and unsupported. When you know what you're really fighting for, you can actually resolve it.

What we explore

8 modules and 45+ lessons: years of relationship work, distilled into one toolbox. These are some of the themes we explore together.

  • Why doesn't it feel like it did in the beginning?
  • Why do we keep doing this even when we know better?
  • How can two people experience the same relationship so differently?
  • Why does everything I say come out wrong?
  • Why am I the one carrying this relationship?
  • How did a conversation about the dishes become this?

Bonuses

  • A workbook to take the lessons deeper
  • A resentment-busting guided visualisation
  • A bonus recording on Parent, Adult and Child ego states
  • An appreciation jar family activity
  • Weekly commitment ideas
  • Books and apps I love
  • Questions to get to know each other again

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Is this for you?

It's a self-study course, so it works the same on your own or together. Some couples set aside every Sunday to watch a module together, then work through the workbook and focus on it that week. You don't need to be in a relationship. Single people have found it helps them show up differently in dating. It makes a thoughtful gift: buy it with their email address.

WWWOWOWWW. Mind blown! We could easily identify our 'injury' and we will keep this in mind going forward. How valuable to now understand why we act the way we do.

Kat C.

I found that the course gave us much-needed structure to relationship (re)building. Full of great content to start understanding our behaviours, what drives them and ways forward. Invaluable.

Ricky Z.

We learned SO MUCH and understand each other better now! … We enjoyed it thoroughly and can really say we understand each other, and why we reacted in certain ways better.

Surene L.

I enjoyed the course tremendously and have great respect for Tehilla's wisdom, insights, research and the compassion with which she helps us to come to grips with many challenges that we as couples are grappling with on a daily basis.

C.G., Clinical Psychologist

Questions

How long does it take?

Lessons run from a few minutes to about half an hour. Watch at your own pace, and give yourself a week to practise each one.

How long do I have access?

Lifetime access, for as long as the course is offered.

What if it's not for me?

Not for you? Full refund within 48 hours, no questions asked.

Is this therapy?

No. I'm a licensed counsellor, but this is a self-study course, not therapy. It's built on the tools I use with private clients.

Want more support?

The Toolbox gives you the core tools to start on your own. If you'd like to go through the full method with me, live: Love, in Real Life (group) or Relationship Realignment 1:1 (private).

Start today, $147

Start today, $147